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Dancing with a Casket? Yep.

Aug15th
2012
4 Comments Written by Melissa
The view in Furcy, Haiti

The view

Ryan and I were able to take a few days off this week, so we decided to drive way up in the mountains and stay at “The Lodge.”  It is a beautiful log cabin surrounded by tall pine trees, mountains, and lots of fresh air!  You can hardly believe that you are in Haiti, after living in crowded, trash-filled Port au Prince.  But as a Haitian man once said to us, “Haiti is not Port au Prince!”  Much of this country is absolutely gorgeous.

Pigs in Furcy, Haiti

This little piggy went to the market…

Taking after my dad, I love to explore new places, especially small towns, and meet the people.  So I’ve pulled Ryan along on several long walks here to do just that.  The roads are all very steep and rocky, so walking is a workout.  We came across a Catholic church where people come from miles around (on foot, of course) to attend.  We also found a rustic hotel where we shared a soda and enjoyed the view. We got to see lots of animals, such as a mama pig and about 10 little piglets on their first trip out.

Movie theater on a mountain

Movie theater on a mountain

Stadium seating for the movie

Stadium seating for the movie

Having a soda at the rustic hotel

Having a soda at the rustic hotel

Another surprise animal to mention that we saw was a bat.  And we were so fortunate not to even have to leave our room for that.  :-D  It started flying around our room as soon as it was dark.  So since we couldn’t get him out, we decided he might as well stay for the night.  We’re trying to think of a good name for him, since he’ll probably be back.

Today we were out on another walk and kept seeing people pass by in suits and fancy dresses.  These are people who live in tiny shacks on the side of a mountain.  We finally asked where they were going, and they said to a funeral burial.  So we followed them, and eventually saw a crowd of people coming at us – probably at least 200, all dressed in their best clothes!  There were a group of musicians – 2 trumpets, a trombone, and a drummer.  They were playing peppy hymns such as “I’ll Fly Away” and all the people were singing along and dancing.  They slowly proceeded down the road and probably walked about two miles all together.

A group of men carried the casket, and kept trading it off to different people to take a turn carrying it.  The craziest thing was that they were dancing with the casket, sometimes putting it above their heads, shaking it to the music, putting it on an angle.  I’m thinking, “Whoever is in there is getting pretty banged up and could be upside down in there by the time the get to the cemetery!”  Several times I had to hold back from bursting out in laughter because of that thought.

A line of cars and motorcycles eventually slowly followed, as they couldn’t pass all the people on the single one lane road.  One driver was angry that it was taking so long, and started honking his horn at the procession.  Then a man from the crowd went up to his window and started yelling at him to be respectful.  I thought for sure a fight was about to break out!

I decided to head back to the Lodge at that point, as I wasn’t really dressed for a burial ceremony and might have stuck out just a little bit, you know, with my skin color and everything.  What a fascinating experience and celebration of life.

All in all, it’s been a great week, and we are thankful for some time to experience and enjoy the countryside of Haiti.

Note the long sleeves & pants!

Note the long sleeves & pants!

FurcyHaiti (22).jpg

 

** UPDATE **

We had someone give us some insight onto the dancing casket… “That was a vodou funeral. Do you know the reasoning behind their doing that? It is to ‘disorient’ the dead person. Many times they will toss and even drop the casket. They believe that this will disorient the person’s spirit in a way that it will not know where it is, and thus cannot come back and haunt them.”

Haiti, Life, Video    anivmals, funeral, furcy, haiti

7 Year Anniversary

Aug13th
2012
14 Comments Written by Ryan

Alberts (63).jpg Today marks our 7 year anniversary!

It feels like it’s beeeeen  fooorrreeevvvveeer Just kidding!  In all honesty, it feels like we have hardly been married for much time at all.  It feels more like 3 years.  I am not sure why 3 years but maybe because I feel like we have so much still to learn about each other.  I feel like I am still getting to know her.

I have this funny, imaginary conversation in my head.  We are sitting down with my grandparents.  My grandpa smoking a pipe as we talk about our seven years.  To them, it’s like a speck of time.  They have been married for much much longer.  They might say, “You young whipper-snapper.  You have so much to learn about marriage.”  I would nod my head and say, “You’re right… you are so wise.” Then joking respond,  ”So after your many, many, many years of marriage, do you understand your wife by now? :-D ”  I see my grandpa letting out a hardy laugh.  I remember seeing them fuss over silly stuff at times but other times still act like they were just married.

Alberts (132).jpg Anyone can attest to the accomplishment of being married for that long.  I certainly hold them in very high regard.  I cannot tell you the number of times I have been thankful that my parents are still together.  When other families have broken apart, they have kept the promise, the covenant “to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, ’til death do us part…” I have grown up learning that as living examples from both grandparents and my parents.  Learning that Jesus is the glue that binds our marriage together.  There are not many covenants we actually make as humans.  Marriage is the one covenant we as humans really make with each other.

Anniversary Day

On our anniversary day, we make it a tradition to go away for a couple days.  This year it is especially important given this past week.  Our anniversary is a time we look back at the good times and a time to look ahead.  There are certain things we save to discuss only on our anniversary.  Today like the previous 7 years we will talk through those things!

An anniversary is a time to celebrate the joys of today, the memories of yesterday, and the hopes of tomorrow.
- Author Unknown

Engagement

Engagement Night

Engagement Night

The night we got engaged I had made a treasure hunt which started off by giving her a “mission impossible” themed tape that started off the journey.  That tape ended with her first clue (and that the tape would self-destruct… of course :-D ).  The other clues had to be found at different locations. It eventually ended at our church with some rose petals scattered on the floor and I sat at the piano up towards the front.  Below is the song that I played.

Link: http://ryanalberts.bandcamp.com/

Today in Haiti

Now we are 7 years into marriage and living in Haiti.  We moved here not knowing what to expect or how to really do life together in a foreign country.  We began to figure out how to have “dates” together in Haiti.  How to have alone time together to make sure we are strong and unified as a couple.  We found this especially important since our connection as a couple can really set the tone for the guest house (mentioned by others before).  Really the best part about today, is that I get to be with my best friend.

There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage. - Martin Luther

Our Wedding on August 13th, 2005IM000409.JPGAlberts (31).jpgAfter we first saw each other

For the 7th anniversary, apparently, the traditional gift for a seventh anniversary is wool or copper.  Sooo since this isn’t the dark ages… we are instead going to drive up the mountains to Furcy, Haiti.

 

Haiti, Life    marriage

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